Monday, September 13, 2010

Continental and English People in love

If a continental youth wants to declare his love to a girl, he kneels down, tells her that she is the sweetest, the most charming and ravishing person in the world, that she has something in her, something peculiar and individual which only a few hundred thousand other women have and that he would be unable to live one more minute without her. Often, to give a little more emphasis to this statement, he shoots himself on the spot. This is a normal, week-day declaration of love in the more temperamental continental countries.
In England the boy pats his adored one on the back and says softly: "I don't object to you, you know."
If he is quite mad with passion, he may add: "I rather fancy you, in fact."
If he wants to marry a girl, he says: "I say... would you?"
If he wants to make an indecent proposal: "I say... what about..."
(by George Mikes, from “How to Be an Allen")

It’s evident different people even of the same nationality arrange their dating process differently. What are your dating customs?

Friday, September 10, 2010

How to make your relationship sweeter, deeper and more passionate

Know that love is a process, not a destination. Love yourself. Say what you feel. Ask for what you need. Reveal what makes you feel loved. Go easy on yourself. Celebrate the exceptional. Praise the ordinary. Do the extraordinary ordinary thing. Be a person of your word. Criticize only in private. Do the unexpected. Shower each other with kisses. Speak the love words. Say “ please “ and “ thank you “. Give more gifts. Ask if you can help. Listen for the meaning beneath the words. Walk a mile in your sweetheart’s shoes. Put your love on a billboard. Communicate with one another. Keep in touch. Take intimate time. Kindle the romance. Watch your tongue. Depart and reunite with loving gestures. Remember the early days of your love. Be willing to make the generous gesture. Tie up your emotional loose ends. Apologize. Apologize. Apologize. Play with one another. Celebrate with ceremonies. Reveal your fears.
Share your dreams. Trust one another. Console one another. Forgive one another. Hold each other in the light. Bow the mystery of love...

Love is patient and kind; it is [Image]not jealous or envious, never boastful or proud. Love is not ill mannered or selfish or easily angered. Love doesn’t keep record of wrongs; it doesn’t delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love never gives up. It always protects. Always trusts. Always hopes. Love never fails…

All girls and boys want to be attractive. While it is true that an especially pretty girl or handsome boy may be asked out more, being “datable” depends on things other than just good looks. Enthusiasm and a good sense of humor are much more important than beauty.

What do you do to attract the attention of your sweetheart?